Inquiring Minds Want to Know...
Why
Do You Talk So Openly About Your Sexuality?
Because it's about damn time
more people did! Aren't you glad you have this resource? Aren't you proud
of me? I didn't have to "come out." I talk and write openly about sexuality
because I do not think it's a bad, evil, sinful thing. On the contrary,
I believe it's time to talk about sex period: politely, loudly, openly,
simply. I'd rather argue and defend my stance, if I must, than hide in
the closet of shame. There is nothing shameful about being sexual, or rather,
there should be nothing
shameful about it. We are born sexual; it's no mystery we are all born
from sex. We are all sexual beings.
Are
You Afraid of Others Finding Out You are Bi
(or
Kinky, or Sexual, or a Sex Writer, etc.)?
Everybody who means anything
to me already knows. Those who do not, either don't need to know, or they
don't care and if they did find out, we could certainly sit down and talk
it over. Glad to discuss it. Sorry if it hurts anyone else, but that pain
is most likely due to their shame and sensitivity, not mine. The more we
talk, the more we learn, the more comfortable we may begin to feel about
taboo subjects.
Are
You Afraid of Writing Under Your True Name?
I do not use a pen name. I
am proud of what I do. I'm trying to create literate art and to help shape
society's view of all things sexual. That means sex, sexuality and all
it's facets do not equal shame, nor give me any reason to hide or protect
my name. I want this recognition as much as any person who is proud of
their life's work and life's goals could possibly want. I accept the risks
and consequences, as well as the accolades that this endeavor may bring.
Are
you Afraid of Weird Stalker People?
Of course I'm afraid of weird
stalker people! Aren't you? I am not afraid I'll be stalked or harrassed
because I'm a sex writer, or because I publish sexy stories or photos.
Writing is empowering, healing and builds self-esteem and self-respect.
Stalkers hate self-respecting women. Believe me, I know! I was harrassed
by a stalker guy for years. These days I'd just send his sorry ass to rot
in jail.
Then,
What Are You Afraid of?
Censorship, Sexism, Hatred,
Misogyny, Lies and Propraganda,
The Christian Right, Really
drunk frat boys
and the possibility of not
ever having health insurance.
How
Can I Get A Date With You?
Thank you for the offer, but
I'm currently unavailable. I'm in a blissful, sexually and spiritually
fulfilling, monogamous relationship with a gorgeous bi guy.
Monogamous!?
I thought bisexuals had to have regular sex with both sexes in order to
be happy?
My sexual preference has nothing
to do with the frequency of sex that I desire nor the gender of my current
partner. I am simply sexually attracted to both men and women and also
transgendered people, hence I am bisexual. I choose monogamy as a relationship
choice, it is not a sexuality issue nor an issue of sexual preference.
Are
There Naked Pics of You on This Site or Elsewhere On-line?
No, none of my boyfriend, either.
Click
Here for Free Naked Pics of Other People.
Are
you a True Blonde?
Yup, I was born a blonde and
I'm a true Ash Blonde,
although I love to wear wigs
and falls and hair-pieces.
And please don't tell me any
blonde jokes,
I probably know more jokes
than you do!
Are
you a professional Dominant, Call Girl, Hooker, etc.?
Sorry no, but there are lots
of good sex workers out there.
Please don't ask me where,
I'm not a dating service, either!
You
call yourself a Goddess... Why? Are you stuck up?
I believe that every woman
is a Goddess.
I believe in the power of
Woman
and I believe in the power
of Love
and these are not just cliche's,
my friend.
Copyright
© 2000 Jamie Joy Gatto. All Rights Reserved.
